Piling It On

Today was a “bad day”. I’m always careful to keep that thought in perspective… nobody died, fell seriously ill or had a personal tragedy. But it was one of those days where things just went wrong instead of right. As I ruminated this evening I found myself keeping a list of everything that was wrong with the day:

  • fire after fire needing to be put out at work, consuming most of my day
  • multiple angry clients taking out their frustration
  • wife and daughter both out of sorts
  • bank putting needlessly paranoid security freeze on our credit card and not removing it upon request
  • multiple frustrating personal technology failures
  • a seemingly simple work task taken on in the evening turning into a major headache
  • my plan to start (and hopefully finish) my taxes this evening snarled by my accountant’s website being down

There’s more, but I’ll spare you. I can already hear the tiny violin playing between your fingers.

But as if this wasn’t bad enough, here I was piling it on by listing everything wrong I could think of over and over in my mental chatter. Obviously not a constructive mental activity, and a good example of clinging to suffering.

A brief exchange on Twitter with a fellow #OMCru member really helped me turn it around with a wonderful “turning word”:

@InvitingTheBell: Having one of those days where so little has gone right that I just have to laugh.

@InvitingTheBell: Tried to post that last tweet from my Nook Reader – browser crashed. Tried to post it from my phone, battery died. That kind of day.

@HabituatedBuddh: @InvitingTheBell On the plus side, you had a 3rd posting option… that’s kinda something

Thank you for that, @HabituatedBuddh.

2 thoughts on “Piling It On

  1. Reblogged this on Namaste Consulting Inc. and commented:
    If you read my last blog entry you know that I just wrote a comment about being with what’s going on with you, here and now. I think this post is a great illuminating example of just that. Thank you for showing us it’s not all black cushions, tea pots, and facing the wall.
    Remember from other posts as well that there is a difference between pain and suffering. . . the first is a part of life that is unavoidable. . . the other we “choose”….

    • Thanks for the reblog. I saw a bumper sticker once that read “Suffering Optional” – I always try and keep that in mind when I’m having a bad day. At least it’s a gift when I remember to. That’s one area where sangha is SO important. Sometimes you just need someone who isn’t in your skin to bring you back.

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